Well it is really not very easy to find using your own intelligence. But first it is important that you have to be genuine, you have to be a genuine seeker of the truth. You pray to God then the Divine will create such circumstances: either you'll be taken to the Guru or the Guru will come to you. When the true Guru comes it will be very much appealing to you. Unknown to you, you'd develop an attachment. Once you adopt, go ahead with it, never look back.